Classifying and judging people promotes violence.

Unless we as social change agents come from a certain spirituality, we're likely to create more harm than good.

When I recognize I've got anger, then I realize it's because I have a need that's not being met.

Labeling and diagnosis is a catastrophic way to communicate. Telling other people what's wrong with them greatly reduces, almost to zero, the probability that we're going to get what we're after.

If we want to make meetings productive, we need to keep track of those whose requests are on the table.

Never give advice to your children unless you have it in writing and notarized.

Please do as I requested, only if you can do so with the joy of a little child feeding a hungry duck. Please do not do as I request if there is any taint of fear of punishment if you don't. Please do not do as I request to buy my love, that, is hoping that I will love you more if you do. Please do not do as I request if you will feel guilty if you don't. Please do not do as I request if you will feel shameful. And certainly do not do as I request out of any sense of duty or obligation.