If you are a czar or a king or a president or someone that wants to control those below them you do not want people to have a consciousness of life, of their needs. Because people do not make good slaves when they're connected to life... That's why in the public schools the primary objective is obedience to authority.

Avoid 'shoulding' on others and yourself!

Don't get addicted to your requests. Your objective is needs, not requests. Because then it becomes a demand.

Anger, depression, guilt, and shame are the product of the thinking that is at the base of violence on our planet.

Our goal is to create a quality of empathic connection that allows everyone's needs to be met.

Enemy images are the main reason conflicts don't get resolved.

In these long-standing conflicts, I find that most cases it gets resolved in about twenty minutes after each side can tell me the needs of the other.