As soon as you say, "are you feeling X because I ..." Then the Jackal starts to salivate because he can educate the person that he's the cause of his pain.

Some people use NVC to respond compassionately to themselves, some to create greater depth in their personal relationships, and still others to build effective relationships at work or in the political arena. Worldwide, NVC is used to mediate disputes and conflicts at all levels.

We recognize that real educational reform is essential if today's and tomorrow's children are to live in a more peaceful, just, and sustainable world.

Violence comes from the belief that other people cause our pain and therefore deserve punishment.

What all the basic religions are saying is this: Don't do anything that isn't play.

The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion.

The only time a message (label) can scare us is if we think there is such a thing, and that such a thing is a disgrace.