NVC is a reminder; to focus our attention where we are most likely to get our needs met.
Staying with empathy we allow speakers to touch deeper levels of themselves.
When we focus on clarifying what is being observed, felt, and needed rather than on diagnosing and judging, we discover the depth of our own compassion.
With every choice you make, be conscious of what need it serves.
The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion.
Before we tackle the gangs and the basic story, we have to make sure that we have liberated ourselves from how we have been educated and make sure we are coming from a spirituality of our own choosing.