Men always want to be a woman's first love. That is their clumsy vanity. We women have a more subtle instinct about things.
Oscar WildeWhile one should always study the method of a great artist, one should never imitate his manner. The manner of an artist is essentially individual, the method of an artist is absolutely universal. The first personality, which no one should copy.
Oscar WildeNothing can cure the soul but the senses, just as nothing can cure the senses but the soul.
Oscar WildeI never take any notice to what common people say, and I never interfere with what charming people do.
Oscar Wilde"I hope your hair curls naturally, does it?" "Yes, darling, with a little help from others."
Oscar WildeI love hearing my relations abused. It is the only thing that makes me put up with them at all.
Oscar WildeIf you cannot write well, you cannot think well; if you cannot think well, others will do your thinking for you.
Oscar WildeChrist did not die to save people, but to teach people how to save each other. This is, I have no doubt, a grave heresy, but it is also a fact.
Oscar WildeI do not approve of anything that tampers with natural ignorance. Ignorance is like a delicate exotic fruit; touch it and the bloom is gone. The whole theory of modern education is radically unsound. Fortunately in England, at any rate, education produces no effect whatsoever. If it did, it would prove a serious danger to the upper classes, and probably lead to acts of violence in Grosvenor Square.
Oscar WildeSchopenhauer has analysed the pessimism that characterize modern thought, but Hamlet invented it
Oscar WildeThat is what the highest criticism really is, the record of one's own soul. It is more fascinating than history, as it is concerned simply with oneself. It is more delightful than philosophy, as its subject is concrete and not abstract, real and not vague. It is the only civilized form of autobiography.
Oscar WildeLaughter is not at all a bad beginning for a friendship, and it is far the best ending for one.
Oscar WildeThe only thing that the artist cannot see is the obvious. The only thing that the public can see is the obvious.
Oscar WildeYou and I will always be friends." "Yet you poisoned me with a book once. I should not forgive that.
Oscar WildeNever met such a Gorgon . . . I don't really know what a Gorgon is like, but I am quite sure that Lady Bracknell is one. In any case, she is a monster, without being a myth, which is rather unfair.
Oscar WildeTo give an accurate description of what has never occurred is not merely the proper occupation of the historian, but the inalienable privilege of any man of parts and culture.
Oscar WildeIt is only shallow people who require years to get rid of an emotion. A man who is master of himself can end a sorrow as easily as he can invent a pleasure. I don't want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.
Oscar WildeWell, I can't eat muffins in an agitated manner. The butter would probably get on my cuffs.
Oscar WildeWhen asked what he thought of sports, Oscar Wilde replied, "I approve of any activity that requires the wearing of special clothing.
Oscar WildeAll authority is quite degrading. It degrades those who exercise it, and it degrades those over whom it is exercised.
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