Most parents are accustomed to dealing with problems in the heat of the moment.
If a solution isn't mutually satisfactory, it's not going to stick.
My advice to educators is collaborate with parents; they know a lot about their kids.
It's a whole lot more productive to be in problem-solving mode than it is to be in behavior modification mode.
Solutions can't be imposed. That just fosters resentment.
When people are rushed, they're stressed and you greatly increase the likelihood of being punitive and unilateral just because you're trying to grasp control.