If I liked food and disliked exercise as much as a 400 pound guy, I'd be a 400 pound guy.
Informed decision-making comes from a long tradition of guessing and then blaming others for inadequate results.
I hated my work. It never seemed to me to be what I should be doing.
The people who think a guy walked on water versus the people who think a horse can fly.
The job isn't done until you've blamed someone for the parts that went wrong.
A person with a flexible schedule and average resources will be happier than a rich person who has everything except a flexible schedule. Step one in your search for happiness is to continually work toward having control of your schedule.