Like a good parent can't also be his child's best friend, a leader with authority requires some separation from subordinates.
Simon SinekWe pursue exercise even though empirically we see no benefit from the energy we're spending and we're hurting. So empirically we should quit. The why is exactly the same thing. You persist even though there are some short-term stresses and even though there is some uncertainty.
Simon SinekThe responsibility of leadership is not to come up with all the ideas but to create an environment in which great ideas can thrive.
Simon Sinek