Leading is not the same as being the leader. Being the leader means you hold the highest rank, either by earning it, good fortune or navigating internal politics. Leading, however, means that others willingly follow you—not because they have to, not because they are paid to, but because they want to.
Simon SinekThe courage of leadership is giving others the chance to succeed even though you bear the responsibility for getting things done.
Simon SinekI'd rather play in the major leagues and have some bad games than play consistently good ball in the minors.
Simon Sinek