Real life is generally much duller and inevitably sadder, most of the time. In film, you control everything that's going on, so you can indulge the most fantastic, romantic, escapist feelings and fantasies. You can do anything you want. That's why it's very seductive and pleasurable to earn your living making movies because you're not living in the real world.
Woody AllenLove may be the answer, but even though you're watching for the solution, intercourse raises some rather interesting thoughts.
Woody Allen