Whatever we can't love or accept in another, is a mirror of something we can't love or accept in ourselves.

When we are willing to accept our experience, just as it is, a strange thing happens: it changes into something else. When we avoid pain, struggle not to feel it, pain turns into suffering.

Now today, moment by moment, realize that each person and event that happens is life for you. Life is not somewhere else. See how fully you can accept the life that presents itself to you now.

Relying on another is an expression of attachment, not love, a manifestation of insecurity and suffering, not understanding the true nature of our lives.

This is how we know we are in a loving relationship. We are blooming, and the one we love is blooming as well.

We turn pain into suffering by adding on all kinds of beliefs, interpretations and judgments to it.

Who you are is always enough. If your partner wants something different, it does not reflect upon you, but upon their needs and fantasies.