Each of us has an inner thermostat setting that determines how much love, success, and creativity we allow ourselves to enjoy. When we exceed out inner thermostat setting, we will often do something to sabotage ourselves, causing us to drop back into the old, familiar zone where we feel secure.
Gay HendricksI expand in abundance, success and love every day as I inspire those around me to do the same.
Gay HendricksIf you want to create vital, long-lasting love, you must become a master of verbal & nonverbal appreciation
Gay HendricksRule Number One is this: If youโre open to learning, you get your life-lessons delivered as gently as the tickle of a feather. But if youโre defensive, if you stubbornly persist in being right instead of learning the lesson at hand, if you stop paying attention to the tickles, the nudges, the cluesโboom! Sledgehammer.
Gay HendricksIt is not love that is to blame. But each of us has resistance to the very love we desire. We also have resistance to the space and independence we need. So we go back and forth, not letting ourselves have one or the other. It all boils down to this: Are you willing to have your relationships be a pathway to fully revealing yourself and your potential? If you answer is Yes, real intimacy can be yours on a daily basis.
Gay Hendricks