Why should you feel honored for getting scraps of his time?
Better than nothing is not good enough for you!
How many presidents, do you think, ever said to another guy: 'I can't believe we're doing this in the White House'?
Wasting time in a relationship that blows is just that - wasted time.
Drinking, eating, shopping, revenge, rebound sex, drugs or whatever your poison may be will number the pain - but that's all.
If we're friends with someone and attracted to them, we're going to want to take it further.