Don't waste the pretty

Try not to be four years into a relationship when it suddenly dawns on you that the guy you're with is a big, selfish jerk.

Because here’s what guys don’t do if they can’t live without you: They don’t break up with you.

The day you realize you don't have to make sense to anyone is the day you start to make sense to you.

If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind. If he creates expectations for you, and then doesn't follow through on little things, he will do same for big things. Be aware of this and realize that he's okay with disappointing you.

The only reason he can miss you is because he’s choosing, every day, not to be with you.

If the guy you’re dating doesn’t seem to be completely into you, or you feel the need to start ‘figuring him out,’ please consider the glorious thought that he might just not be that into you. And then free yourself to go find someone that is.