There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.

Uncool is a cool resting place. The pressure's off me.

So, I play in a band. It's a really underground band. Super underground. Very underground. Like, we don't even actually play.

Why should you feel honored for getting scraps of his time?

My buddy Tom... he'd been chasing a girl for two years, and he got her the old-fashioned way - dates and listening.

Wasting time in a relationship that blows is just that - wasted time.

Wasting time with the wrong person is just time wasted.