Life's biggest rewards come from the biggest challenges

So, I'm 34. I'm kind of becoming an adult - kind of, I guess. But I know that I am because, the other day, I said to somebody, 'Dude, dude, don't - those are the good plates.

The pain of being in a bad relationship is confusing. When it's over - it's over. No more confusion!

Trust yourself, because as Oprah says, doubt means don't every time

..he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you.

Try not to be four years into a relationship when it suddenly dawns on you that the guy you're with is a big, selfish jerk.

The best thing that can happen in a relationship is when you are the same person you were before the relationship started. You are not hiding anything, and you still have a life of your own. The other best thing is sex - that is a super positive.