Maybe this is just me, because my priorities have changed as I’ve gotten older. But now I don’t want to be ‘sort of dating’ someone. I don’t want to be ‘kinda hanging out’ with someone. I don’t want to spend a lot of energy suppressing all my feelings so I appear uninvolved. I want to be involved.

Cheaters never prosper. (Because they suck.)

...you are defined by how you live your life, not whom you live it with, and certainly not by what you gave up to be with that person.

Let's start with this statistic: You are delicious. Be brave, my sweet. I know you can get lonely. I know you can crave companionship and sex and love so badly that it physically hurts. But I truly believe that the only way you can find out that there's something better out there is to first believe there's something better out there. What other choice is there?

Let's call cheating what it is: a complete betrayal of trust.

He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out. Because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out.

Cheaters are people who have a lot of stuff to work out, and they're working it out on your time and with your heart.