Because here’s what guys don’t do if they can’t live without you: They don’t break up with you.

It's very tempting when you really want to be with someone to settle for much, much less - even a vague pathetic facsimile of less - than you would have ever imagined. Remember always what you set out to get, and please don't settle for less. These guys exist because there are a lot of women out there who allow them to.

Sometimes people change their minds, sometimes they meet someone else, sometimes they get sober, and sometimes he was just a jerk who you're lucky to be rid of.

Before you look for validation in others, try and find it in yourself

Because here’s what guys don’t do if they can’t live without you: They don’t break up with you.

The best thing that can happen in a relationship is when you are the same person you were before the relationship started. You are not hiding anything, and you still have a life of your own. The other best thing is sex - that is a super positive.

It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that have to announce that I ate kale and liked it.