He doesn't need to be reminded you're great.

There will never be a good time, financially, to get married, unless you're Shaq or Ray Romano. But somehow people manage. If your man is using money as an excuse not to marry you, it's your relationship that's insecure, not his bank account.

Cheaters are people who have a lot of stuff to work out, and they're working it out on your time and with your heart.

I'm fascinated with human relationships. I advocate the relationship you have with yourself.

If you bury the pain deep down it will stay with you indefinitely, but if you open yourself to it, experience it, and deal with it head-on, you'll find it begins to move on after a while.

Anyone who assesses you or your relationship as disposable is not worthy of your time or tears.

Drinking, eating, shopping, revenge, rebound sex, drugs or whatever your poison may be will number the pain - but that's all.