It's the difference between someone who loves you more than anything in the world giving you criticism and getting it from some bitter stranger on the Internet. What my dad said to me was the kind of criticism where I was like, "Oh, my God, I'm on the wrong track." I'm so grateful to him for doing that. He was such a no-nonsense guy in that sense.
Gwyneth PaltrowSome days I feel like everyone in my world has plugged themselves into my kidney. I'm so tired. But when you're having dinner with your kids and your husband and someone says something funny or you're dying laughing because your three-year-old made a fart joke, it doesn't matter what else is going on. That's real happiess.
Gwyneth PaltrowI think the most important beauty lesson I've learned from my mom is to be happy in what you do.
Gwyneth PaltrowIf you go in in the morning and have had a rough night, dunking your face in ice water is really good.
Gwyneth PaltrowI never knew I could suffer so much. And then, at the same time, you think, now I'm ready to open myself up to life in another way, to make it worth something and make it about the right things and not waste time.
Gwyneth PaltrowIf we were living in ancient Rome or Greece, I would be considered sickly and unattractive. The times dictate that thin is better for some strange reason, which I think is foolish.
Gwyneth PaltrowI don't hold on to fear as much as I used to, because I've learned a lot about genuinely not caring what strangers think about me. It's very liberating. It's very empowering, and I've learned a lot of that from Jay-Shawn Carter-Z, because his approach to life is very internal. It's a very good lesson to learn.
Gwyneth PaltrowI really am a smoothie person. I love making a morning smoothie and then will drink some coffee and will not eat at all before lunch.
Gwyneth PaltrowI first had a version of this at a Japanese monastery during a silent retreat-don't ask, it's a long story.
Gwyneth PaltrowI started boxing one day a week to experience aggression, which has been really interesting.
Gwyneth PaltrowWhen I turned 40 I thought, 'I have to really make sure I have time to myself,' because it's very overwhelming to be taking care of so many people.
Gwyneth PaltrowIf you have a very hot experience then shock yourself with cold water, it's very very good for the nervous system.
Gwyneth PaltrowI am one of your biggest fans (Barack Obama), if not the biggest, and have been since the inception of your campaign....It would be wonderful if we were able to give this man all of the power that he needs to pass the things that he needs to pass...You're so handsome that I can't speak properly.
Gwyneth PaltrowI never thought that I'd be considered to have a good body. I was bony up top and kind of dumpy on the bottom.
Gwyneth PaltrowMy life is good because I am not passive about it. I invest in what is real. Like real people, to do real things, for the real me.
Gwyneth PaltrowI remember when I was maybe 27 years old and kind of at the height of my movie stardom - it was around the time of the Oscar and this and that. I think I was very much believing my own hype, which how could you not? I was sitting with my dad, feeling great about my life and everything that was happening, and he was like, "You know, you're getting a little weird...You're kind of an asshole." And I was like, "What the hell?" I was totally devastated. But it turned out to be basically the best thing that ever happened to me.
Gwyneth PaltrowI've learned a lot about genuinely not caring what strangers think about me. It's very liberating.
Gwyneth PaltrowI wouldn't say I'm a mummy's girl, but I have grown to have a tremendous appreciation of her as a woman. I was very much a daddy's girl.
Gwyneth PaltrowWhen I was twenty-one, a friend gave me a book called Diet for a New America by John Robbins, which exposed the brutal practices of American factory farms. That, coupled with a lecture from Leonardo DiCaprio (when he was nineteen and I was twenty-one) about how such animals are kept and processed, made me lose my desire for factory farm pork and beef right there.
Gwyneth PaltrowI love film. After a yummy meal for the whole family and some truly great friends, we often go out to see something beautiful and unique.
Gwyneth PaltrowItโs much harder for me... I think itโs different when you have an office job, because itโs routine and, you know, you can do all the stuff in the morning and then you come home in the evening. When youโre shooting a movie, theyโre like, 'We need you to go to Wisconsin for two weeks,' and then you work 14 hours a day and that part of it is very difficult. I think to have a regular job and be a mom is not as, of course there are challenges, but itโs not like being on set.
Gwyneth PaltrowI'm just like any other regular mum; cooking, cleaning, wiping butts, picking up after kids, being a wife and helping the kids with their homework. Mind you, I'm terrible at maths. I can't even do my six-year-old's maths homework with her.
Gwyneth PaltrowIn my 20s because I was working on films so much and travelling so much and doing press, I was single with no kids and I think that's the time when not only are you trying on looks, but you're trying on personalities - you're still really forming.
Gwyneth PaltrowIn Britain, they have a lot of laws to protect you, and we enforce them very strongly so that our children can stay private figures, and the British press leave us alone, which is great. It means we can go on the Tube into the centre of London because it's quicker and more fun for the kids. We can do normal things.
Gwyneth PaltrowI have an amazing team, and we find people who resonate with us, but sometimes our scope is still small because we are a pretty small group and we have so much work to do. We get approached a lot.
Gwyneth PaltrowI definitely don't read any tabloids. You really have to find a way to separate the words of people you respect - stranger or not, but respectful content, positive or negative - and people who are just in pain and projecting their own sh*t onto you.
Gwyneth PaltrowI try to take care of my hair because it sort of has to withstand a lot of blowdrying and ironing.
Gwyneth PaltrowMy hair is pretty wavy. And it's coarse and color-treated so I'm big on conditioner and conditioning masks.
Gwyneth PaltrowI love the English way, which is not as capitalistic as it is in America. People don't talk about work and money. They talk about interesting things at dinner parties.
Gwyneth PaltrowSome really famous people, even when they're off-duty, have this energy that is sort of overpowering.
Gwyneth PaltrowI try to remember, as I hear about friends getting engaged, that it's not about the ring. It's a grave thing, getting married.
Gwyneth PaltrowIf your role is to mentor somebody, what you're essentially doing is taking stock of what you've learned, the mistakes you've made, the successes you've had, and you kind of coalesce them and then you translate them back out.
Gwyneth PaltrowI really don't like drunk women; I think it is such a bad look. I think it's very inappropriate and I don't like it. I don't really have drunk friends.
Gwyneth PaltrowBe really, really true to yourself. That to me, has been key to me in understanding how I want to live the second half of my life.
Gwyneth PaltrowWomen were real box office stars in the '40s, more so than men. People loved to see women's films. I think it was better then, except for the studio system.
Gwyneth PaltrowI'm able to be a normal mom for the most part. I'm in [clothing store] Brandy Melville like all the other moms.
Gwyneth PaltrowI don't know if I came to this life with it or if it's something that came to me in my childhood, but I do feel that some of the things my parents said to me and how they raised me really stuck with me.
Gwyneth PaltrowLuckily, my children love broccoli, and although we sometimes enter into UN-like negotiations about how many 'trees' they need to eat before they can partake of ice cream, it is a vegetable that they tend to embrace.
Gwyneth PaltrowI really wanted my creams to feel luxurious and have a beautiful finish, and it's harder to do that with natural ingredients.
Gwyneth PaltrowThere's something that sort of weirds me out about actors who want to be rock stars, and the other way around too.
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