The reason you have to say "Trust me" is that you haven't earned it and are forced to ask for it - BAD MOVE.
Positive mental attitude is determined by you. Not others.
Go to humorous events at comedy clubs and watch laughable movies.
People who are cocky and arrogant say, 'I know that' and move along. People who are confident and positive ask themselves,' How good am I at that?' and seek to improve
Change is REFINEMENT. Change is GROWTH. Change is MOVEMENT. Change is OPPORTUNITY.
Bankrupsy stays on your record for 7-10yrs. That gives you an idea how long it takes to rebuild trust.