Before you try to keep up with the Joneses, be sure they're not trying to keep up with you.
Erma BombeckI remember thinking how often we look, but never see ... we listen, but never hear ... we exist, but never feel. We take our relationships for granted. A house is only a place. It has no life of its own. It needs human voices, activity and laughter to come alive.
Erma Bombeck