I think that there is a problem with rewards and consequences because in the long run, they rarely work in the ways we hope. In fact, they are likely to backfire.

We only feel dehumanized when we get trapped in the derogatory images of other people or thoughts of wrongness about ourselves.

Anger is a signal that you're distracted by judgmental or punitive thinking, and that some precious need of yours is being ignored.

We are designed for Giving

If we don't tell people about our needs, it is much less likely they will be met.

Anger can be a wonderful wake up call to help you understand what you need and what you value.

Miracles can happen when we can keep our consciousness away from analyzing and classifying one another.