I think that there is a problem with rewards and consequences because in the long run, they rarely work in the ways we hope. In fact, they are likely to backfire.

In NVC, no matter what words others may use to express themselves, we simply listen for their observations, feelings, needs, and requests.

NVC requires us to be continually conscious of the beauty within ourselves and other people.

I wouldn't expect someone who's been injured to hear my side until they felt that I had fully understood the depth of their pain.

When we are in contact with our feelings and needs, we humans no longer make good slaves and underlings.

If I'm using Nonviolent Communication I never, never, never hear what somebody thinks about me. Never hear what somebody thinks about you, you'll live longer. You'll enjoy life more. Hear the truth. The truth is that when somebody's telling you what's wrong with you, the truth is they have a need that isn't getting met. Hear that they're in pain. Don't hear the analysis.

It's harder to empathize with those who appear to possess more power, status, or resources.