Having a separate fund for the things in life that happen, helps keep the emergency fund in tact in case you lose your job or income.
Michelle SingletaryYou still need to save but being debt-free in retirement is and should be a goal.
Michelle SingletaryI love teaching people how to handle their money and I've built a brand on that skill.
Michelle SingletaryMany debt collectors offer a lump sum option so ask. And if you get it, make sure it's in writing and you keep the payoff statement FOREVER.
Michelle SingletaryIt's why this election was HORRIBLE. It was either Hilary is the devil and Trump a saint. Or Trump the devil and Hilary a saint. Can't we all have a decent, civil conversation without throwing "shade?"
Michelle SingletaryI use my financial values to set my limitations. I have three children I want to put through college debt free. So that means I can't spend wildly or with disregard.
Michelle SingletaryI write for people who are good money managers and want to know how to be even better stewards over their money.
Michelle SingletaryThe schools can't cover all the values that go along with how you handle your money. For example, a financial literacy class might not teach me to hate debt the way my grandmother, Big Mama did.
Michelle SingletaryIf we aren't careful, our children will come down with 'affluenza,' a disease that causes them to confuse wants and needs. We need to teach our children what my grandmother taught me: Think twice about spending money you don't have on things you don't need to impress people you don't like anyway.
Michelle SingletaryIf you'll have enough saved and nobody has to take on debt and you want to retire, shoot go for it.
Michelle SingletaryYou shouldn't invest the money if you are looking to use it within five years. Too much risk.
Michelle SingletaryI will just say, no matter where you buy the car, do your homework. When I purchase a car I come in with a folder an inch thick. In fact, one time the auto sales person asked if he could copy my research!
Michelle SingletarySo many people joke that life with me - a professed lifelong penny pincher - must be tough. But [my husband] is a great money manager. And he helps me let go of my fear of spending while still being frugal.
Michelle SingletaryMoney may not be able to buy you love, but conflicts about it can certainly bankrupt your relationship.
Michelle SingletarySave what you can toward the emergency and life happens fund. But don't worry yourself sick at the slow growth. The point is it's growing even it's just one dollar at at time.
Michelle SingletaryIf we don't want the companies to cheat on us, we shouldn't be cheating on them.
Michelle SingletaryMy husband and I are pretty good at leaving money alone until we need it for what we've saved it for.
Michelle SingletaryRemember life insurance is intended as income replacement to help dependents and or/spouse pay for things that your income would have covered. When you get to the point that you're dependents (Your kids mostly) aren't dependent on your income, you could reduce the amount of life insurance you are carrying.
Michelle SingletaryI'm not a fan of debt consolidation. In my experience, many people "clear" credit cards and other debt to get the one payment and never change what they need to change to prevent getting into debt again.
Michelle SingletaryA smart couple with a healthy financial relationship is always talking about money and how they're handling it. If there's a medical emergency or a job loss, talk about it. If there's a windfall, talk about it. Your financial situation is a constantly changing thing.
Michelle SingletaryYou are NOT a financial failure if you rent. You are getting something for your money. A roof over your head.
Michelle SingletaryTo get started, track your expenses for a couple of months. Then you should be able to start filling in your estimated debits and deposits for the next few months. Once you get it rolling for a while, you will be able to see your budget for the upcoming months reflected in the estimated totals. You can even notice year-to-year trends, like bonuses, tax bills, etc. that come up routinely and it will help you budget accordingly.
Michelle SingletaryMy experience may be different than theirs, readers can identify with trying to save for retirement or their own kid's college fund. In truth, the name of the column, "The Color of Money," has less to do with my race than the fact that the color of money is green and it's green we all need to live a good life.
Michelle SingletaryMy rule is when in doubt hire a professional. You could do it just this year and then you have direction to resume doing it yourself after the consultation. What you don't want is to do it wrong and be hit by a huge tax bill. Remember the old saying, "Don't be pennywise and pound foolish."
Michelle SingletaryI understand why many are still poor or struggling to make just a middle-income lifestyle. I'm a fiscal conservative, but I also have compassion for people who make financial mistakes.
Michelle SingletaryMy grandmother's grandparents were slaves. My grandmother Big Mama would tell me about the stories she heard as a child growing up in the shadows of a North Carolina plantation. It's only been in my lifetime that blacks have had the right to vote, live in certain areas or hold certain jobs. It is with this black history that I write about the financial challenges African-Americans still have.
Michelle SingletaryIf you haven't saved, your child may have to work. But do what you can to NEVER take out student or parent loans.
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