I frustrate myself as a writer. There are certain things that I'll think, 'Well, that would be really fun to play... if somebody else was playing this character.'
Lena DunhamI'm really lucky because I surround myself onset with people who I really trust to give me feedback, so I'm directing myself.
Lena DunhamBarbieโs disfigured. Itโs fine to play with her just as long as you keep that in mind.
Lena DunhamMy thoughts on body image are simple: if you are being kind to yourself mentally and physically you never have anything to be ashamed for, ever.
Lena DunhamI shared a bed with my sister, Grace, until I was seventeen years old. She was afraid to sleep alone and would begin asking me around 5:00 P.M. every day whether she could sleep with me. I put on a big show of saying no, taking pleasure in watching her beg and sulk, but eventually I always relented. Her sticky, muscly little body thrashed beside me every night as I read Anne Sexton, watched reruns of SNL, sometimes even as I slipped my hand into my underwear to figure some stuff out.
Lena DunhamMy sister is bold, independent, and not afraid to wear overalls. Some of her first words as a child were "that's not fair," and she's been committed to social justice ever since. She's my hero.
Lena DunhamI remember it made me feel better because so many of my friends at school. Were doing that stuff and doing that stuff on sleep overs. But I just didn't feel ready. It wasn't like I had any judgment of it being two women. It would have scared me as much if not more. I was like a three month period in which all the words sleep over was code for was "let's get together and touch each other's vaginas." and I was. Haunted. And I remember going home and feeling like I couldn't tell my mother even though she would've understood and probably laughed.
Lena DunhamI've only recently realized that I have a radically different relationship with my parents than a lot of people.
Lena DunhamPart of being a feminist is giving other women the freedom to make choices you might not necessarily make yourself.
Lena DunhamI am thinking particularly of a shower I took where the lower half of my body was under the running water and the upper half was laid out on the bath mat, eating a loaf of bread.
Lena DunhamI went to schools that were small enough that basically everyone was in a play. I played a bouncing ball in a production of Alice in Wonderland and a fat man in an Italian commedia dell'arte play. I was given some small chances.
Lena DunhamI spent all my time on my movies worried that people were eating and that the schedule was being kept, so to have experts in those areas giving me the brain space as a writer and director is huge.
Lena DunhamGuys warning girls not to fall in love with them is so truly douchey that it should have a higher success rate.
Lena DunhamIt's very easy for me to say what success is. I think success is connecting with an audience who understands you and having a dialogue with them. I think success is continuing to push yourself forward creatively and not sort of becoming a caricature of yourself.
Lena DunhamIt's funny, I never considered that people are going to see me on the show and maybe stop me on the subway.
Lena DunhamI feel lucky in that the same way I've surrounded myself with people I'm creatively comfortable with, I've surrounded myself with people who are accepting of the way that I look.
Lena DunhamThe people accusing me of being productive don't know how hard it is for me to just bend my elbow sometimes.
Lena DunhamOkay, 'Best Party Ever' -- to me, that's like saying 'Best Gym Ever' or 'Best Nature Documentary Ever,' like how good can it really be?
Lena DunhamThe idea of being a feminist-so many women have come to this idea of it being anti-male and not able to connect with the opposite sex-but what feminism is about is equality and human rights. For me that is just an essential part of my identity. I hope [Girls] contributes to a continuance of feminist dialogue
Lena DunhamI'm ridiculous in my oversharing; my mom and sister are very open but a little more judicious than me... and my father is a decidedly private person.
Lena DunhamDon't wait around for someone else to tell your story. Do it yourself by whatever means necessary.
Lena DunhamHere's what I have to say about being married: someday you will look at him, hating him with every fibre of your being, wishing that he would die the most violent death possible. It will pass.
Lena DunhamI'm so proud of Jason's [Benjamin] work. I can say this and he can't, but there's no group of documentary subjects more devoted to their documentarian. The vibes are really positive, and I feel so lucky.
Lena DunhamI'm really lucky because my sister is a real activist soul and also hyper-intellectualized in this way that's really allowed me to wrap my mind around some of the bigger intellectual concepts and really understand the language around identity in the gender nonconforming community.
Lena DunhamBasically my new litmus test for people is, do they make me hear about a blow job they gave in the first ten minutes of us talking? And if they didn't then I can feel excited.
Lena DunhamI would have specific books [when I was 12 or 13] that had pages that I knew had sex on them that I would go and read.
Lena DunhamMy parents were open about sex. And my dad makes paintings that have a sexual component and it still scares me.
Lena DunhamThe thing that's so hard about being a kid is you don't have enough knowledge to explain things yourself.
Lena DunhamI have work, and then I have a dinner thing. And then I am busy, trying to become who I am.
Lena DunhamI do think girls in their twenties accept certain kinds of lesser treatment than they would at other times in their lives.
Lena DunhamI went to an amazing school in Brooklyn called St. Anne's that's a really kind of creative hot bed.
Lena DunhamOne of the reasons I'm so proud of my mother is she took her skills of over a 40 years photographic career and translated that to a film.
Lena DunhamHere's who it's okay to share a bed with: . . . A heating pad. An empty bag of pita chips. The love of your life.
Lena DunhamIf you watch my movie, you understand I am perverse and weird and angry and not looking to direct a film that ends with a bunch of teenagers exploding into glitter.
Lena DunhamWe're the last f - ing people who have a f - ing opinion on what you should do with your body. Anything that makes your day easier, as long as you're not feeding your baby crack in milk, is really good by us.
Lena DunhamI think that as our country becomes more tolerant as a whole of certain things, hopefully becomes more tolerant, there's a way that certain kinds of bullying will be passe and unacceptable.
Lena DunhamI'm so in awe of what visual artists do and I do understand the differences of what visual artists do. I have a small art collection I hope to expand.
Lena DunhamLet's call a spade a spade - a lot of times when you are a vegetarian it is a just not very effective eating disorder.
Lena DunhamI hate to be the person that's like, "We're doing something that's never been done before."
Lena DunhamWhen we, as young women, are given the space to read, the act becomes a happy, private corner we can return to for the rest of our lives. We develop this love of reading by turning to stories that speak to the most special, secret parts of us.
Lena DunhamI can never be who I was. I can simply watch her with sympathy, understanding, and some measure of awe. There she goes, backpack on, headed for the subway or the airport. She did her best with her eyeliner. She learned a new word she wants to try out on you. She is ambling along. She is looking for it.
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