People have the right to think and say whatever they want to. But you have the right not to take it to heart, and not to react.
Phil McGrawAnyone can do something when they want to do it. Really successful people do things when they don't want to do it.
Phil McGrawI mean, if you degrade someone, you isolate them, you control them, you call them names, you demean them. That's a horrible existence for people.
Phil McGrawIf your neighbor has a completely different view on abortion, gay marriage, stem cell research, all of those things, you still are both Americans. Neither one of you is necessarily more patriotic than the other. Neither loves their country any more than the other one does.
Phil McGrawI'm embarrassed every time I look a teacher in the eye, because we ask them to do so much for so little.
Phil McGrawThink about all of the times, situations, and circumstances where you have gotten caught up in making your self right rather than happy... The harder you fight to win, the bigger you lose.
Phil McGrawWell, let me tell you, if you're 45, had three children and are post-menopausal, you're not going to weigh what you did the day you graduated from high school. Get that out of your head. That's a media-driven ideal that you're never going to healthfully obtain.
Phil McGrawIf you don't know what it is you want - and I mean specifically - then you won't even know when you have it.
Phil McGrawAre you doing what you're doing today because you want to do it, or because it's what you were doing yesterday?
Phil McGrawYou have to figure out what that is, and you have to make a plan to get to it. And the plan has got to have a timeline. You have to choose something that you can afford to do and then lock it in and passionately do it.
Phil McGraw