Find the best in everybody. Just keep waiting no matter how long it takes. No one is all evil. Everybody has a good side, just keep waiting, it will come out.
Randy PauschIf she doesn't really love you, then it's over. And if she does love you, then love will win out.
Randy PauschWe cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand. If I donโt seem as depressed or morose as I should be, sorry to disappoint you.
Randy PauschThe size of your audience doesn't matter. What's important is that your audience is listening.
Randy PauschHe had high hopes for society, and though his hopes were too often dashed, he remained a raging optimist.
Randy PauschI'll take an earnest person over a hip person every day, because hip is short-term, earnest is long term.
Randy PauschIf I was able to tell my story with the passion I felt, my lecture might help others find a path to fulfilling their own dreams.
Randy PauschEngineering isn't about perfect solutions; it's about doing the best you can with limited resources.
Randy PauschBrick walls are there for reason. And once you get over them-- even if someone has practically had to throw you over-- it can be helpful to others to tell them how you did it.
Randy PauschOne thing that makes it possible to be an optimist is if you have a contingency plan for when all hell breaks loose.
Randy PauschThroughout my academic career, I'd given some pretty good talks. But being considered the best speaker in the computer science department is like being known as the tallest of the Seven Dwarfs.
Randy Pauschsomehow, with the passage of time, and the dealines that life imposes, surrending became the right thing to do
Randy PauschThe brick walls are there for a reason. The brick walls are not there to keep us out. The brick walls are there to give us a chance to show how badly we want something. Because the brick walls are there to stop the people who donโt want it badly enough. Theyโre there to stop the other people.
Randy PauschIf nobody ever worried about what was in other people's heads, weโd all be 33 percent more effective in our lives and our jobs.
Randy PauschIt is not the things we do in life that we regret on our death bed. It is the things we do not.
Randy PauschWalls aren't put in our life to stop us, they are there to test how much we really want somthing.
Randy PauschIt's a thrill to fulfill your own childhood dreams, but as you get older, you may find that enabling the dreams of others is even more fun.
Randy PauschYou can't get there alone. People have to help you, and I do believe in karma. I believe in paybacks. You get people to help you by telling the truth, by being earnest.
Randy PauschRemember how quickly our field [computer science] changes. That's why you want to focus on learning things that don't change: how to work well with other people, how to carefully assess a client's real - as opposed to perceived - needs, and things like that.
Randy PauschWell, you canโt have just some of me, Jai,โ I told her. โYou appreciate the part of me that didnโt get angry because two โthingsโ we own got hurt. But the flip side of that is my belief that you donโt repair things if they still do what theyโre supposed to do. The cars still work. Letโs just drive โem.
Randy PauschIf I could only give three words of advice, they would be, 'Tell the truth.' If I got three more words, I'd add: 'All the time.'
Randy PauschPeople lie for lots of reasons, often because it seems like a way to get what they want with less effort.
Randy PauschFundamentals, fundamentals, fundamentals. Youโve got to get the fundamentals down because otherwise the fancy stuff isnโt going to work.
Randy PauschNever lose the child-like wonder. Itโs just too important. Itโs what drives us. Help others.
Randy PauschLook, I'm going to find a way to be happy, and I'd really love to be happy with you, but if I can't be happy with you, then I'll find a way to be happy without you.
Randy PauschRandy Pausch on time management: Here's what I know: Time must be explicitly managed, like money. You can always change your plan, but only if you have one. Ask yourself: Are you spending your time on the right things? Develop a good filing system. Rethink the telephone. Delegate. Take a time out. Time is all you have. And you may find one day that you have less than you think.
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