I love not rushing the process. Mind doesn't shift until it does, and when it does shift, it's right on time, not one second too late or too soon. People are like seeds waiting to sprout. We can't be pushed ahead of our own understanding.
Byron KatieLow self-esteem is not possible when you understand the nature of everything. Depression is not possible. The universe is absolutely friendly.
Byron KatieThe only way I can be angry at you is when I have thought, said, or done something that is unkind in my own opinion.
Byron KatieIt is easy to be swept away by some overwhelming feeling, so it's helpful to remember that any stressful feeling is like a compassionate alarm clock that says, "You're caught in the dream."
Byron KatieIn my experience, we don't make thoughts appear, they just appear. One day, I noticed that their appearance just wasn't personal. Noticing that really makes it simpler to inquire.
Byron KatieThere is nothing that isn't true if you believe it; and nothing is true, believe it or not.
Byron KatieStress is an alarm clock that lets you know you're attached to something not true for you.
Byron KatieWho would you be without the thought "I need more money to be safe?" You might be a lot easier to be with. You might even begin to notice the laws of generosity, the laws of letting money go out fearlessly and come back fearlessly. You don't ever need more money than you have.
Byron KatieFor me, everything is God. Everything and everyone. So it was just, God needs me now, now, now.
Byron KatieIf we are in silence - in absolute silence with no thoughts - for 10 minutes, it's only a thought that tells us we were silent for 10 minutes. Our only proof is a thought.
Byron KatieI havent had a single thought for 26 years. I have only understanding. Its somewhat complicated to understand that. Ive hardly ever spoken about it. Youre in a state of total peace of mind. A kind of nirvana.
Byron KatieI love being free enough that I can be so intimate with people, and that people are free enough that we can all be intimate with each other!
Byron KatieYou're never given more pain than you can handle. You never, ever get more than you can take.
Byron KatieThey say, "Katie, you're wrong." And if I say, "How dare you say that? I have studied and studied." Or, "I am an expert in" whatever area we're talking about. Or, "No, you are wrong! And I think you're rude!" Or anything like that, and if we don't say it out loud, maybe we think it, but that's stressful. The moment I've defended, in any way, I've started the war.
Byron KatieHappiness is a clear mind. A clear and sane mind knows how to live, how to work, what emails to send, what phone calls to make, and what to do do to create what it wants without fear.
Byron KatieI have an expression I say a lot: I'm in a hurry. There's suffering on this planet that is so easy to break through if the mind is open to doing so.
Byron KatieSpare yourself from seeking love, approval, or appreciation-from anyone. And watch what happens in reality, just for fun.
Byron KatieI'm not in Iraq. I'm here in California. Have I had an argument with my husband today? Have I been at war with someone in my life today - or with myself? Let me work on that. That way war is ending somewhere in the world.
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