In my experience, if you steer clear of dogma and muster up more love than you thought you had to give, then your vitality increases, satisfaction sets in, sweetness surfaces. I believe in the creative power of good feelings. I'm convinced that the desire to be real is everyone's divine imperative.
Danielle LaPorteMy friend and coach reminded me this week that there is a moment when the acrobat lets go of one trapeze and is completely suspended in mid-air before she catches the incoming rung. You have to let go to get there.
Danielle LaPorteFirst. get clear on how you want to feel. Then, do stuff that makes you feel that way.
Danielle LaPorteYou will always be too much of something for someone: too big, too loud, too soft, too edgy. If you round out your edges, you lose your edge. Apologize for mistakes. Apologize for unintentionally hurting someone - profusely. But don't apologize for being who you are.
Danielle LaPorteGive it your all. Give it away. Your desires are being held in the hand of the cosmos with incredibly sturdy care. Life is not testing you. She is rooting for you.
Danielle LaPorteHappiness is like rising bubbles -- delightful and inevitably fleeting. Joy is the oxygen -- ever present.
Danielle LaPorteConsider that you radiate. At all times. Consider that what youโre feeling right now is rippling outward into a field of is-ness that anyone can dip their oar into. You are felt. You are heard. You are seen. If you were not here, the world would be different. Because of your presence, the universe is expanding.
Danielle LaPorteWhen you put your preferences on the altar of your life and say: THIS. THIS is what compels me. The real you emerges.
Danielle LaPorteSelf-criticism is not "love," and it is certainly not indifferent. It's a form of hatred. And when I name that, when I see it for what it is (raw and uncomfortable and saddening), when I refuse to sugar-coat self criticism, judgment, agitation, and constantly trying to improve myself, then I'm one quantum leap closer to freedom.
Danielle LaPorteWhy are you afraid? This is where you get it out of your system: bankruptcy, unfulfilled potential, trashing your reputation, losing it all. And then (because we just can't stop there), you're going to apply some simple analysis to it.You may have nothing to fear after all.
Danielle LaPorteThereโs a time and purpose for being lost. If you donโt judge the being lost you get through it sooner.
Danielle LaPorteThe cosmos doesnโt measure sweat and hours for reward. The cosmos deals in the currencies of joy and satisfaction.
Danielle LaPorteWhen you decide to go after a new dream, you need to give less to your current reality and more to your desired reality... Take your energy out of what you donโt want to be doing anymore so you can put it in what you really want to be doing.
Danielle LaPorteYou can only do what ONLY YOU can do. Do that. The universe will configure around your very best efforts. Willingly.
Danielle LaPorteSpeak the truth. Affirm your desire. Declare your intentions. Recall your successes. Your psyche will believe you. Your body will feel you. Your Soul will thank you for the straight-up communication.
Danielle LaPorteKnowing how you actually want to feel is the most potent form of clarity that you can have. Generating those feelings is the most powerfully creative thing you can do with your life. And not only do we have to put our feelings at the heart of our ambitions, we have to pursue our desires in a way that is life-affirming, rather than soul-depleting. Rigid goal-chasing is burning us out. Soul-anchored intentions are the way to get home.
Danielle LaPorteKnowing how you actually want to feel is the most potent form of clarity that you can have.
Danielle LaPorteGoing with the flow is responding to cues from the universe. When you go with the flow, youโre surfing Life force. Itโs about wakeful trust and total collaboration with whatโs showing up for you.
Danielle LaPortePeople magazine with a bag of sour cream and onion chips always makes be feel a bit trashy. But good trashy.
Danielle LaPorteApologizing makes me feel vulnerable. And strong. Expressing gratitude makes me feel vulnerable. And strong. Maybe there's something to this vulnerability/strength connection, eh?
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