When you feel victimized or sad, just allow yourself to cry; you'll feel better and have more room to experience joy.
Jude BijouKindness manifests in a lot of ways, such as acts of compassion, helpfulness, empathy, forgiveness, and caring. These gestures kindle and ignite feelings of love.
Jude BijouBy staying active & learning to control negative emotions and thoughts, you can live out the rest of your life on a good note.
Jude BijouWe're all unique and we all have our own talents. If you keep acknowledging your assets and accomplishments , and strive to be the best you can be, you'll let that 'not good enough' mentality go and be on your way to loving yourself, no matter what.
Jude BijouMaking sweeping statements such as 'no sweets ever again' has never worked before, and it's not going to work now. You'll get quickly overwhelmed and punt on any positive momentum you created.
Jude BijouYour goal should be something that feels really right, not forced. Make sure your goal resonates with whatโs true for you.
Jude BijouIf you chose to listen within you will get some really helpful information. You really do know the answer. Intuition is always at the ready.
Jude BijouWe have a choice at every moment. We can engage in sadness, anger or fear or we can choose joy, love, and peace.
Jude BijouGood planning is the foundation of success for almost any project. Start by getting clear on your goal.
Jude BijouGiving appreciations, praise, and gratitudes feels good and puts good vibes in the environment.
Jude BijouPutting our expectations on others is a habit that keeps us feeling frustrated. It diminishes the amount of love we feel.
Jude BijouWhen you're gripped by anxiety, worry, insomnia, or panic, make yourself shiver, quiver, tremble, and shudder. It seems silly, but it really works.
Jude BijouThe process of setting a goal, learning the necessary steps to achieve it, and giving it your best until you've mastered it will generate high self-esteem and pride. Those are feelings associated with joy.
Jude BijouBeing alone in nature is another way to feel the joy of beauty - and oneness with a greater whole.
Jude BijouAcross the board, it's infinitely more effective to praise actions that you want to encourage than to punish those you disapprove of.
Jude BijouAlong with bathing and eating your veggies, releasing emotions needs to become part of our daily routines.
Jude BijouIn a place that feels safe and private, constructively express your sadness by allowing yourself to cry. While crying, acknowledge your hurts and losses. Don't indulge any negative thoughts about yourself. Just keep telling yourself, "I'm fine. It's okay to cry. I just feel sad." You'll immediately feel washed clean, even joyful.
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