Good listeners have a huge advantage. For one, when they engage in conversation, they make people 'feel' heard. They 'feel' that someone really understands their wants, needs and desires. And for good reason; a good listener does care to understand.
Simon SinekIf you want to be a great leader, remember to treat all people with respect at all times. For one, because you never know when you'll need their help. And two, because it's a sign you respect people, which all great leaders do.
Simon SinekI know if I persist it will pay back in dividends and it always does. What starts to happen is like exercise, the pain goes away. It starts to get easier and the weight starts to get lighter and people start to notice a difference in you and you start to notice a difference in yourself. You find your ability to make decisions is easier; you find you are inspired more often. You find your success increases. You find that your random moments when you're in the flow are no longer random and you can control them. Other people notice the difference.
Simon SinekWords may inspire, but only ACTION creates change. Most of us live our lives by accident - we live life as it happens. Fulfillment comes when we live our lives on purpose.
Simon SinekI look for the hotels that have figured out the comfortable balance - a modern room that is well designed, and really clean sheets.
Simon SinekOf course there are people out there who are helping others find their why. Some are doing a really great job and some are doing a not so great job. I love the fact there are people out there, and consultants out there doing that.
Simon SinekIt is like when a player has a slump, we do not trade them, we coach them. It is the same with our employees. The best leaders come to the aid of their people, whose performance is down. Not come down harder on them.
Simon SinekThe irony is that the best thing we can do is, well one option, is to quit job we don't like. You don't always have to quit, and quite frankly, option two is to try to help others solve the problem that you are struggling with.
Simon SinekFollowing takes why. Transactions take what. It has to be real. It has to be the same for writing a book.
Simon SinekThe goal of life is not to have our lives mean something to ourselves. The goal of life is to have our lives mean something to others.
Simon SinekThe goal of business should not be to do business with anyone who simply wants what you have. It should be to focus on the people who believe what you believe. When we are selective about doing business only with those who believe in our WHY, trust emerges.
Simon SinekWhat good is it to have a belly if there's no fire in it? Wake up, drink your passion, light a match and get to work.
Simon SinekWhen you start with why, which decision you make becomes very easy. It is so hard to do when you may suffer a short term loss or you may lose out on some short term gain. But in the long run it's way more powerful and way more stable.
Simon SinekYou have to have a patience for exercise. You have to have a patience for college. You have to have a patience for relationships. Once the momentum gets going it takes on a life all of its own.
Simon SinekLife changes for the better when we realize that we don't have to know everything and we don't have to pretend we do.
Simon SinekSome people are born good-looking. Some have the gift of gab. And some are lucky enough to be born smarter than the rest of us. Whether we like it or not, Mother Nature does not dole these characteristics out evenly.
Simon SinekThe most effective leaders are actually better at guarding against danger when they acknowledge it that it exists. Cowards, in contrast, cling to the hope that failure will never happen and may be sloppy in the face of danger - not because they don't acknowledge that it exists, but because they are just too afraid of it to look it in the eye.
Simon SinekA company and leaders of the company have the responsibility of the precious lives of all the human beings that work there.
Simon SinekTrust doesn't develop from always doing the right thing. Trust comes from taking responsibility when we do the wrong thing.
Simon SinekPilots, to a large degree, are like salesmen. They have to be confident to be good at their jobs. They have to practice relentlessly and plan out all the scenarios of the things that could happen when they're out there. Nothing is more important than preparation. They are also mighty competitive, both as individuals and as squadrons.
Simon SinekA parent does not do everything for their kid. A parent that does everything for their kid produces a kid with no self-confidence. If our parents fixed everything for us and did not allow us to do anything on our own, or intervened every single time, we would all grow up to be completely dependent. The reason we grow up to be healthy adults is because our parents played this game of giving us responsibility, disciplining us when necessary, letting us try, letting us fail.
Simon SinekThe true value of a leader is not measured by the work they do. A leader's true value is measured by the work they inspire others to do.
Simon SinekLook down from as high as possible. Look ahead as far as you can see. Then decide what to do.
Simon SinekI can't stand those people, speakers in a room, they say this all the time, "If I can just help one person in this room, I've done my job." You have an audience of 500 people and your standard of success is one person? That's terrible. If you help one person in the room, you're an abject failure. You have to change something.
Simon SinekGreat leaders and great organizations are good at seeing what most of us canโt see. They are good at giving us things we would never think of asking for.
Simon SinekI don't enjoy eating humble pie; it never tastes good. But I do appreciate it when it happens.
Simon SinekSimple ideas are easier to understand. Ideas that are easier to understand are repeated. Ideas that are repeated change the world.
Simon SinekWe should invest in people not ideas. A good idea is often destroyed by bad people and good people can always make a bad idea better.
Simon SinekRepublicans are completely befuddled by Obama's 'star power' and don't seem to have a clear or effective strategy to compete.
Simon SinekThe primary ingredient for progress is optimism. The unwavering belief that something can be better drives the human race forward.
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